How to be true in love?
A friendship or relationship can be for you source of joy but also pain .Sometimes you want and desire it so much and you are lost in searching real one.Many times you have experienced despair when relationship or friendship in which you hoped was not fulfilled or when started with great expectations and later didn’t last..how to be find and to be true in love?
Secure in love of God
Many of your friendships are caused by need of affection, affirmation and support.You need to begin your search for friendship from inside out, from place within you where you are deeply loved. A friendship becomes far more easier to find when you accept yourself as greatly and deeply Loved by God.Then you can stay with others and not posses them.True friends find their communication and communion where they know and experience love of God. Here soul speaks to soul,heart to heart.
True in love because is everlasting
True friendship or relationship lasts because a true is everlasting and eternal. Friendship in which heart talks to heart is gift of God. None of His gifts is temporary or occasional. Everything what comes from God participates in eternal life of God. Love given by God is stronger than death.When you deeply loved ,this love grows more and more.
When Jesus died,friendship of disciples didn’t cease. Opposite, it has grown. And this is a meaning of coming of Holy Spirit. Spirit of Jesus has made Jesus’friendship with His disciples stronger and more intimate than before.And this is what Paul has experienced saying: “It’s not me who lives but Christ who lives in me.”
Be brave and trust in love
You need to trust that every true friendship or relationship doesn’t have the end.Have courage to love and be true friend.Love which you give and receive is the reality which will lead you always closer to God and these ones which God has given you to love.
Good advice about giving
When you give something to your friends, don’t expect answer or gratitude. When you really believe in God’s love for you, you can leave to your friends a freedom of responce to your love in their way. They have their own story ,character,their own way to receive love. They can be slower,more hesitant or more prudent than you. They can be with you in ways which are real and authentic for them…Have confidence that the person who loves you REALLY wants to show you love even if choice of circumstances like time,place or form can be different from yours.
Big part of ability to have confidence in your friends, depends on fact that you believe in your kindness. When you give freely and spontaneously, don’t worry “maybe I gave to receive something back “.Trust your intuition. Let people you love answer to your love in the way they want and can. Then you will experience real gratitude.